“Lindsay Lohan’s real problem is not alcohol or cocaine” according to one behavior expert & therapist who says her real problem is her relationship with her parents. Lohan was busted early Tuesday on DUI charges for the second time in a matter of months and charges of cocaine possession. 

 “Like so many other troubled celebrities, Lohan who just recently completed more than six weeks in a rehab center, is being treated for her substance abuse but not her internal emotional abuse” says Human Behavior Expert and Celebrity Life Coach Patrick Wanis.  “Lohan’s real issue is her domineering mother, a poor relationship with father and her struggle with her own sexuality.” Continue reading “Lindsay Lohan’s real problem is not alcohol” »

While the media swirls with rumors that Nicole Richie is pregnant and given that she is facing jail time, one Human Behavior Expert and therapist warns that it would be most damaging to Nicole’s child should it be born in jail.  

Celebrity Life Coach and author, Patrick Wanis says, “Although her child wouldn’t end up in the welfare system as do most children born into incarcerated mothers, any amount of time that the child is away from her mother at such early and critical stages of development could affect the child’s internal emotional security, adversely affecting the child’s social relationships. Also, if Nicole were to suffer any depression during her jail time and later when released it could affect her level of nurturance and affection towards her child. Studies show depressed mothers are less loving, affectionate and nurturing towards their children. In other words, the mental and emotional impact of Nicole’s jail time would most likely be transferred to her child.”

Why are so many women having a challenge enjoying sex? And are they even meant to enjoy sex?

“While outrage and concern grows in Britain over female genital mutilation, throughout the Western-male-dominated society, music, media and even fashion are geared primarily towards the pleasure of the man – not the woman; e.g. Hip-hop music says that the woman who has numerous sexual partners is a “ho” (whore) but the man who conquers many women is to be idolized as powerful – a stud or pimp. It also promotes the concept that the female is designed to please, serve and satisfy the male.

“We need to reveal the truth and help change the way women feel and perceive themselves, their body and sex”, says Wanis. “A woman’s body is designed for pleasure. The clitoris is the only part of human anatomy that was designed purely for pleasure. A woman can have a clitoral orgasm without it being directly tied to reproduction. She does not need to have a clitoral or vaginal orgasm to become pregnant but when a man has an orgasm he releases semen which is designed only for reproduction. In other words, unlike the male body, the female body was designed to experience pleasure separate from the process of reproduction.” Wanis has created a unique hypnosis CD to help free women of sexual guilt – Enjoy Sex – Hypnosis for guilt-free great sex…for women © WOW Media -available at www.patrickwanis.com and click on CDs – Audio Books

Texas . Read it here:  http://patrickwanis.com/blog/index.php/2007/06/28/why-women-cant-enjoy-sex/  

“Few women feel good about their bodies” says Patrick Wanis, PhD -Human Behavior & Relationship Expert and Celebrity Life Coach. “Society and religion generally deny or blatantly condemn a woman’s right to sexual pleasure. Surveys reveal that at least fifteen per cent of women never experience orgasm—and many more women fake it.