In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about self-sabotage, destructive behavior and how to change it.

First a quick update:  

·         I will be taping the Montel show September 12 in NY on the topic of angry men. I will alert you of the broadcast date soon

·         If you missed out on last week’s: “The Secret to Get What You Want” phone seminar, we recorded it and you can now listen to it anytime at http://patrickwanis.com/getwhatyouwantseminar  

·         I am presenting a phone seminar for Peak Potentials Training Tuesday September 25 on “The Secret to Get What You Truly Deserve.” More details in the upcoming weeks.

·         I gave a controversial radio interview to Sally Jessy Raphael for her new syndicated radio show speaking about Macy Gray and her live song and comments that “Woman is the nigger of the world.”  Listen to it at http://patrickwanis.com/RadioInterviews.asp

·         My audio book: “Get What You Want” is now available on Amazon.com and I would greatly appreciate if you have used this product to add your testimonial or review at http://www.amazon.com/Get-What-Want-Patrick-Wanis/dp/0977919242/ref=sr_1_3/002-4751582-9006419?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1188322151&sr=8-3  

Now let’s talk about more about sabotage, destructive behavior and how to change it.

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In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about self-destructive behavior and give you the details of my gift to you -my phone seminar: “The Secret to Get What You Want!” 

Tomorrow night August 21, I am presenting my phone seminar at 9 PM

So let me ask you: Will you be stopped or will nothing stop you?
Do you know what you want?Have you tried almost everything and still can’t get what you want?  

In my phone seminar, I will reveal the true formula to success, happiness, riches and wealth…I will reveal the three key elements missing from The Secret and the one law that is so powerful, it can neutralize The Law of Attraction, and lead to misery and self-sabotage.If you can grasp the powerful principles of success I outline then you, too, can get what you want, hold onto it and enjoy it!  

Now let’s talk about destructive behavior and from where it comes.  Continue reading “Destructive behavior and The secret to get what you want” »

In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about fear and The Great Trickster.

First, a reminder that I am presenting a phone seminar: “The secret to get what you want” August 21 at 9 PM NY time. The phone seminar is a gift – no cost. It is part of the trainings offered by  www.mlmteleclass.com I will send out a separate email informing you of the how to get on the call.  Now let’s talk about fear – from my book “Get what you want!” available as an eBook or audio book on CD: 

“Fear is the greatest killer of all human potential. Fear is what stops us from even trying to get what we want. Fear stands between us and everything we want out of life.  Fear, though does not exist. Read that sentence again. 

You might be shocked even annoyed by that statement because fear does feel real. Continue reading “The Great Trickster” »

In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about the power of understanding. First, I would like to alert you that I will be presenting a phone seminar on “The secret to get what you want” on August 21 at 9 PM NY time. The phone seminar is a gift – no cost. It is part of the trainings offered by  www.mlmteleclass.com Details in next week’s success newsletter.  

The motion picture, Spider-man 3, explores the themes of revenge, the power of choice, and the dark side that exists within each and every one of us. The movie reveals how destructive revenge can be and how it can consume and overpower us, and that in each moment we always have a choice – we are not forced into acts of revenge or hatred. We can choose a different path.  Throughout the movie, we see the power of revenge taking over each of the characters, Peter Parker for his uncle’s murder, Eddy for the loss of his job, Harry for the death of his father and Sandman/Flint Marko for the people that try to stop him for getting help for his ill daughter. 

In one of the final scenes of the movie, Sandman/Flint Marko confronts Spider-man/Peter Parker and explains his involvement in the murder of Peter Parker’s uncle. Sandman says, I don’t expect you to forgive me but I do want you to understand. As Sandman relates his story – about his desperation to save his sick daughter and how the attempted car robbery turned tragic, Peter’s face softens and demeanor change and he responds with “I also have done bad things.” Peter pauses and then adds, “I forgive you.” The sandman changes into sand and becomes a sandstorm fading into the distance.  Continue reading “Revenge or understanding?” »

In this Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about the link between significance, self-esteem and happiness.

First, I would like to alert you that I will be presenting a phone seminar on “The three secrets to persuasion and influence” August 14 and another phone seminar “The secret to get what you want” on August 21. Details in next week’s success newsletter.

In one of my past Success Newsletters, I explained that self-esteem is measured by how much you like and accept yourself, how significant you feel and how capable you feel.

While we have only three physical needs for survival: food, water and shelter, we also have various emotional needs such as love, acceptance, validation, appreciation, affection and significance. I believe significance is one of our key needs.

The dictionary defines significant as having a meaning, important, purpose. Significance can be defined as having or likely to have a major effect; important.

So, I would like to pose the question, do you feel significant? Do you feel you are having a positive impact on other people? Do you feel you have a purpose in life, a mission, and are you living it?

I believe that our deepest sense of satisfaction and fulfillment comes from knowing that we are helping other people, contributing and adding value to other people’s lives. Whose life or lives are you impacting?

Another way to view this point is that we all need to be needed. Who needs you? Who depends on you? Do the people around you tell you how significant you are? Does your wife, husband, boss, son or daughter, best friend tell you how significant you are and what a positive impact you have and are having on their life? Do you tell them how significant they are? Do you recognize within yourself your significance and the impact you have on others?

Start today, start now: Tell the people in your life that they are significant. Tell them what it is about them that makes them significant to you. It is not surprising that the people we least appreciate, compliment, praise are those that are closest to you. We do this because we fear that they might reject us or that we are not good enough or deserving of their love and respect. Thus, begin with the people in relationship to you – partner, family and then business and professional.

You might begin by saying something such as: Mariko, I want to tell you how important you are to me. You have been a blessing in my life. You have helped me to face and overcome many of my fears. You have taught me to love, to be more patient, kind and understanding and less angry. You have helped me to be less selfish and more thoughtful. You have encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone and to learn to love more unconditionally. You have helped me to see that I can be strong and dependable. Your sincerity, vulnerability and honesty inspire me…I need you in my life because you are a light and your love is a wondrous gift and I treasure our connection. Our relationship is so important to me…

Imagine now how fantastic it would feel to receive such a message or to relay this message. The both of you will feel inspired to love and be grateful for what you have. The both of you will feel significant and appreciated and you will both naturally want to express more love and kindness to each other…

Do it now. Don’t wait till it is too late and you live to regret what you could have said or wish you had said.

On a side note, ladies, don’t wait for your man to tell you he loves you. If you feel it, just say it. You will feel better and if he can’t handle it or isn’t ready then at least you know now!

To learn more about the power of giving and adding value to other people’s lives, check out my audio book “Get what you want!” http://patrickwanis.com/GetWhatYouWantAudioBook.asp

Remember to check out my Blog on my website to read my past Success Newsletters, post your comments and take a few exciting quizzes. www.patrickwanis.com And please forward this message to anyone who might benefit from the positive message. If you have received this newsletter as a forward and would like to receive all of my newsletters please enter your email address on the home page at PatrickWanis.com.

I wish you the best and remind you “Believe in yourself -You deserve the best!”

Patrick Wanis

Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert & Clinical Hypnotherapist

www.patrickwanis.com