Lets talk about real love. Last week, I was brought in to spend three days help save a marriage and family and tape it for the Montel TV show. I sat down with the family to assess the situation and understand the dynamics of a blended family suffering from violence and arguments between the step children and the step mother. I quickly read the body language of Cassie (one of the daughters.) I told her that I could read and feel her resentment towards her father sitting right next to her. I encouraged Cassie to open up and she told me that she hates her father because he is not around, doesn’t give her attention, doesn’t listen to her or hang out with her.
Archive for October, 2007
Selfish people -danger!
Tuesday, October 23rd, 2007In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about avoiding selfish people.
First a quick update:
· This past week, I stayed in Ionia Michigan to help save a marriage and family and tape it for the Montel show. I can proudly say that their lives have been changed. One of the daughters, Chelsea age 14, tried to strangle her step sister three times and kicked her pregnant step mother in the stomach. She is now a new person. I will alert you about when the show will be broadcast. · Listen to me on Sally Jessy Raphael’s syndicated radio show Tuesday October 23 speaking about Chelsea’s story (from above) and how I helped her · Look for my article, “Why Do Women Crave Romance?” at magicofromance.net You will be shocked by the answers! · For the international traveler, VIVA – Dubai’s glossy women’s magazine will be featuring me in the November issue writing about how to keep the romance alive· Beginning this week, I am writing success articles for Date.com and Matchmaker.com’s weekly newsletter
Now let’s talk about selfish people and why you must avoid them at all costs.
Recently Joel Osteen was on Larry King Live and he made a valid point: If you want to know who you will be in five years, just look at the people closest to you for they will influence you and you will become like them. Joel and I teach that it is imperative to stay away from negative people for I say: “You become who you hang out with!”
So let me ask you, “Who do you hang out with? What kind of people do you surround yourself?”
One of the most destructive types is the selfish person. This is the person who only cares about him or herself and thus ends up having no one else care about her, except herself. But in the meantime, she will drag you down, destroy your self-confidence and indirectly teach you to doubt your self-worth.
Life-changing experience
Tuesday, October 23rd, 2007
I would like to share with you an experience that has changed my life and the lives of one family. This past week I was brought in by the Montel Williams TV show to help heal a family and save their marriage and family. Of all the therapists and experts on the files of the Montel show, they chose me and then chose to air this show in November during the most important TV period –Sweeps –rating contest. The supervising producer told me what I was doing has never been done in his fifteen years in daytime television. And I can tell you that you have never seen anything like it before on TV. I know that it would probably be best if I were to relate to you all the details of my experience with this family but alas that would take a book. I will tell you that this family has been changed forever and they are so grateful.
I will share with you now the experience of just one of the girl’s lives who was changed by my work. You will see the rest on the show in November.
This is a blended family – the husband has two daughters, the wife one daughter and the husband and wife have a 2 yr old daughter together. The two daughters are violent towards the step mother and their step sister. One of them, Chelsea, tried to strangle her step sister three times and kicked her step mother in the stomach when she was pregnant. Chelsea is just 14! She has the appearance of a thirty year old woman who has been a junkie – almost no life in her tiny, skinny body which looks like the body of an eight year old girl. Her eyes sunken, wearing heavy black eyeliner and such a sadness that the TV crew and producers wanted to just cry and hold her.
Life-changing experience on Montel show
Tuesday, October 23rd, 2007Hello Ladies and Gentlemen:
I would like to share with you an experience that has changed my life and the lives of one family. This past week I was brought in by the Montel Williams TV show to help heal a family and save their marriage and family. Of all the therapists and experts on the files of the Montel show, they chose me and then chose to air this show in November during the most important TV period –Sweeps –rating contest. The supervising producer told me what I was doing has never been done in his fifteen years in daytime television. And I can tell you that you have never seen anything like it before on TV. I know that it would probably be best if I were to relate to you all the details of my experience with this family but alas that would take a book. I will tell you that this family has been changed forever and they are so grateful.
I will share with you now the experience of just one of the girl’s lives who was changed by my work. You will see the rest on the show soon.
This is a blended family – the husband has two daughters, the wife one daughter and the husband and wife have a 2 yr old daughter together. The two daughters are violent towards the step mother and their step sister. One of them, Chelsea, tried to strangle her step sister three times and kicked her step mother in the stomach when she was pregnant. Chelsea is just 14! She has the appearance of a thirty year old woman who has been a junkie – almost no life in her tiny, skinny body which looks like the body of an eight year old girl. Her eyes sunken, wearing heavy black eyeliner and such a sadness that the TV crew and producers wanted to just cry and hold her. Continue reading “Life-changing experience on Montel show” »
Who is to blame – you or your parents?
Tuesday, October 16th, 2007In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about “Who is to blame – you or your parents?”
First a quick update:
· Listen to me on Sally Jessy Raphael’s syndicated radio show Tuesday October 23 speaking about “The Psychology of Anger” · For the international traveler, VIVA – Dubai’s glossy women’s magazine will be featuring me in the November issue writing about how to keep the romance alive· Look out for my article, “Why Do Women Crave Romance?” You will be shocked by the answers! Details next week.· Beginning at the end of this month, I will be writing success articles for Date.com and Matchmaker.com’s weekly newsletter· This week I will be living with a family in Michigan for 5 days to coach everyone in the family and tape it for the Montel TV show· Watch me on University of Miami’s “off the wire” late night TV show at http://patrickwanis.com/Videos.asp
Now let’s talk about “Who is to blame – you or your parents?”
I have found through my work with clients, research, studies and experience that the key foundation to all success and happiness is what you feel & believe about yourself & the world around you.
Those feelings and beliefs are formed in your childhood, the first eight years. Continue reading “Who is to blame – you or your parents?” »
Goal setting and money
Wednesday, October 10th, 2007In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about goal setting and money.
First a quick update:
· Watch me on University of Miami’s “off the wire” late night TV show at http://patrickwanis.com/Videos.asp · Listen to my special audio program, “The Psychology of Anger” at http://www.patrickwanis.com/montel · For the international traveler, VIVA – Dubai’s glossy women’s magazine will be featuring me answering reader’s questions about how to keep the romance alive· The Montel show is looking for a family that wants to save its marriage and is willing to do what it takes. Montel is offering a unique opportunity to get the help by having me live in your house for five days, working and coaching every member of the family. This would normally cost thousands of dollars but is a gift. The experience will be taped for TV and the family would be flown to NY for an in-studio interview. If you or someone you know is interested email tv@patrickwanis.com
Now let’s talk about goal setting and money.
Is it possible to hit a target when you can’t see it? Of course not! If you decide to get what you want, then you must first be clear about what you want and why you want it. You have probably also heard me say that you get more of what you focus on. So on what are you focusing?
The majority of people spend most of their time focusing on what they don’t want and on just getting-by. Too many of us spend most of our time focusing on and hitting the same target over and over again, failing to set new targets and goals for what we truly want. If all of your energy is spent on surviving –paying the bills, getting-by pay check to pay check, then you will stay stuck and you will continue to just get more of the same. For some people, it is too scary to actually sit down and write out a few simple goals. Some people get fooled into thinking that what they are now is all they will ever be and what they have is all that they will ever have. Some people simply can’t imagine things changing in their world. In other words, the present experience and reality creates new disempowering and crippling beliefs about what is possible. Continue reading “Goal setting and money” »
Hypnosis and the devil
Wednesday, October 3rd, 2007In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about hypnosis and the devil!
First a quick update:
· Many people wrote to say that they missed out on the class because of the huge response, so, you can now listen to “The Secret to Get What You Truly Deserve” http://www.patrickwanis.com/TheSecret_GWYTD· You can watch some of the Montel show featuring me working with people who have challenges with anger at http://www.patrickwanis.com/montel and listen also to my special audio program, “The Psychology of Anger”· Next week I will have the link for you to watch me on University of Miami’s Off the Wire –late night talk and comedy sketch show
Now let’s talk about hypnosis and the devil.
Many people believe that a hypnotist has supernatural powers and can control you. This is absolutely false. If you ever saw my hypnosis stage shows (which I no longer perform) it appears as if I am controlling them but as my shows proved hypnotized people will never do anything against their will. The CIA also conducted secret experiments in the 1950s using hypnosis and drugs to try and create the ultimate war soldier and they learned that they couldn’t force people to act against their deepest will. Continue reading “Hypnosis and the devil” »
Patrick Wanis -first person to do Hypnotherapy on national TV
Tuesday, October 2nd, 2007We received an email requesting clarification regarding the fact that Patrick Wanis is the first person ever to do Hypnotherapy on national television. Wendy wrote to say that a couple of people have performed hypnosis on TV in the past, including the Montel show and David Letterman. Below is our response:
Hi Wendy,
Many people have done hypnosis on TV before –primarily for comedy and a few have used it for phobias. However, the work that Patrick does on Montel is: “not simply suggestion or commands nor NLP. I go deeper under hypnosis to uncover the root cause of the anger, indentifying the triggering event during childhood, release the emotions, identify what beliefs were taken on at the time, gain new understanding about the event – why it happened, understand that the event is now over, done with and in the past (the subconscious loops the event) forgive the people associated with the triggering event, express compassion for self and those people, and take on new beliefs about self, the world and life. Also, command or suggestion hypnosis will not clear the cause of the issue or block – it only works to try and remove the symptom. I do not do symptom removal – I always seek out the cause so that the client can get the real healing.” No one has done this process – hypnotherapy – hypnosis on national TV.
From personal experience the work that Patrick is doing, in terms of the process of hypnotherapy is unique and powerful: he has done it on me and the results were spectacular.
Many thanks and I will pass onto Patrick your best wishes and messages…Chris B.Patrickwanis.com
Also, if you saw the Montel show, Montel Williams pointed out on TV that the work that Patrick Wanis does is different from traditional hypnosis such as stop smoking.
Spear surrenders her sons
Monday, October 1st, 2007By Hollie McKay
Fox News online
LOS ANGELES — K-Fed’s master plan to gain full custody of his kids was successful Monday afternoon, and it seems Spears was either sedated or just very self-controlled when she heard the negative news.
According to an inside source, the “reformed rehabber” was totally emotionless and continued on her day-to-day duties after being informed that her sons would be residents of Fed-Ex. Spears had until 12 p.m. Wednesday to hand her baby boys over, but apparently the “Crazy” crooner has done so already.
X17 Online snapped the songstress taking Sean Preston and Jayden James thru the Carl’s Jr drive-thru for a fast-food fix Monday afternoon before handing them over to K-Fed’s bodyguard at a designated meeting point.An eyewitness said Spears was smiling, seemingly unaffected by the incident – and once again, it appears as though Brit Brit was driving (without a valid CA license?!)
However, many fear that the devastating news could be detrimental for the depressed diva once she comes to terms with what has happened.
“This bodes very badly for Britney, who is already very fragile emotionally. The potential complete loss of custody for Britney could shatter her fragile world,” said Patrick Wanis, Celebrity Life Coach and Human Behavior Expert. “The danger is that given that she has been living in denial of her problem and refusing to fully embrace help and therapy this latest development in her tragic story may simply result in her turning even more to drugs and alcohol to help her deaden her pain and hide her real issues…”
But don’t expect Britney to back down y’all. Pop Tarts has learned that another custody hearing has been scheduled for Wednesday. A rep for the pop princess recently told us that the allegations against Spears were unfounded and that she was an “excellent mother who always puts her children first.”Pop Tarts also spoke briefly to Britney’s former long-time manager Larry Rudolph who couldn’t “bring himself to discuss Britney” and her bad news, but made it clear that his thoughts are with his pop prodigy.
