Archive for February, 2008

Michelle Obama reveals her subconscious truth

Tuesday, February 19th, 2008

 

Michelle Obama’s comments that this is the first time in her adult life that she is proud of her country may have been her subconscious truth triggered by emotion” according to Patrick Wanis, PhD, Celebrity Life Coach and Human Behavior Expert.

 

“Most people carefully structure and reveal what they wish other people to know to illicit a desired response. This is known as our conscious projection. However, our subconscious truth is what and who we are inside, in our core –our real self and feelings” says Wanis, a Clinical Hypnotherapist. “Intensely emotional states and experiences trigger our subconscious truth and this is what probably occurred with Michelle Obama during her political speech.”

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What a woman wants

Tuesday, February 19th, 2008

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about what a woman wants. 

First a quick update:  

 

·         “Roger Clemens, Barry Bonds and greed, lies, accountability & decaying values.” Listen to the controversial interview I gave to Jim Peake of mysuccesgateway.com. We also discuss the internal breakdown of Western Civilization, and the role and responsibility of parents; and I reveal the link between maintaining your integrity, feeling good about yourself and having greater self-confidence, and, I explain why we have become the most medicated society in the world  at www.patrickwanis.com/radiointerviews   

Now let’s talk about what a woman wants. 

This is the age-old question that has racked men’s brains: “What does a woman want?”
Let’s first take a look at one of the key myths that men have about women:
 

All a woman needs to be happy is financial security

This is false. A woman needs emotional security first, above all else. She can make her own money! In my next appearance on the Montel TV show, you will see me explain to a married man, a father of four children, that a man’s role is much greater than just being the provider. This father often refers to being there for his children and wife but until we began to work together, he never knew what it actually meant to be there for them and he simply believed paying for the bills and repeatedly saying, “they know I am there for them” was suffice for his family. He sincerely believed that he was fulfilling his role as a father and husband.

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Roger Clemens, Barry Bonds and greed, accountability & decaying values

Tuesday, February 19th, 2008

Will Durrant, American historian, once wrote: “A great civilization is not conquered from without until it has destroyed itself from within.”  

Jim Peake of mysuccessgateway.com interviews Patrick Wanis to talk about Roger Clemens; greed, lies and our fear to admit when we are wrong; our lack of accountability and responsibility; the internal breakdown of Western Civilization, and the role and responsibility of parents. Patrick also reveals the link between maintaining your integrity, feeling good about yourself and having greater self-confidence, and, explains why we have become the most highly medicated society in the world.

 

Patrick Wanis and Jim also debate hot topics such as pedophilia within the catholic church; motivations, the mind and psyche of a molester, and the effects of abuse on its victims (the three key results when molested children become adults); the gender responses to abuse: How adult women respond to having been abused as children versus the way adult men respond to having been abused as children.

Listen to the 40 minute interview www.patrickwanis.com/radiointerviews

Self-doubt

Monday, February 11th, 2008

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about self doubt and how to overcome it. 

First a quick update:  

 

·         “Celebrity meltdowns” – Watch the FOX News channel story and my take on the real causes at www.patrickwanis.com/videos ·         “Are you dateworthy?” Watch the two-part TV interview I gave on iVillage Live  www.patrickwanis.com/videos·         “Britney and Dr Phil’s lesson”: listen to the interview I gave to XM radios’ Broadminded including the reasons why “will power” doesn’t succeed in helping people to conquer deep-seated subconscious issues at www.patrickwanis.com/radiointerviews  

 

Now let’s talk about self-doubt and self-confidence. 

To be confident means you are self-assured. You know yourself, believe in yourself, and respect yourself. Arrogance is “I am better than you” which, actually comes from feelings of insecurity and inferiority. Confidence is “I know who I am and I know what I am doing.”

 

Self-confidence is tied into self-esteem: “how much you like yourself.” The level and extent to which you like yourself depends on how significant you feel and how capable you feel. 

When you feel capable, you feel confident. In other words, you believe in yourself, you trust yourself and you know that you will succeed, even if you make mistakes. 

Self-esteem and self-confidence are also tied into fear and the need for the approval of others.   Continue reading “Self-doubt” »

Needy Love

Tuesday, February 5th, 2008

In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to talk about needy love? 

 

First a quick update:  

 

·         Read my article “The Secret to Get What You Truly Deserve” at www.date.info ·         Listen to the interview I gave on “From Fear to Success: Principles of Success” (Annie Jenning’s PR) http://patrickwanis.com/successprinciples ·         Listen to the interview I gave on “Communication Skills” to Jim Peake http://patrickwanis.com/communicationskills/   

 

Now let’s talk about needy love. 

In my newest book, “Find Love Fast!”, I share two secrets that can change your life. Today I will share one of those two secrets with you and yes, it relates to needy love, desperate love. Here is an excerpt from my book, available from my website http://patrickwanis.com/FindLoveFastBook.asp  

 “One of my clients, Jill, came to me in desperation. After three years, Robert, her partner walked out on her. She was confused and deeply hurt. “I did nothing wrong. I loved him so much. I did everything he wanted. I gave everything to him. I cooked and cleaned for him. I know that no one will ever love Robert the way I did…”  Continue reading “Needy Love” »