Marilyn Monroe sang, “Diamonds are a girl’s best friend.” In many ways, that song signified that the way to win a woman is with expensive gifts. However, as time and experience have proven money, diamonds and material possessions don’t equal love nor do they guarantee a loving relationship. Marilyn Monroe died as a lonely and unhappy woman.
There are actually 5 languages of love, and those languages of love have been identified by Gary Chapman, and he refers to words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. I say that there is a sixth language of love, and that language of love is food. So we must start off first with the question “why is it important at all to speak our partner’s love language?”
There is a sixth language of love, and that language of love is food
The way you feel loved is the way you will express love. If you express love in a way that your partner does not experience love, then he/she won’t feel loved. For example, if you feel loved when you are held and your partner feels loved when he/she is told words of affirmation, then you aren’t communicating the same language of love. Thus, if you if you feel loved when you are held, you will express love by holding your partner and he/she won’t feel loved (or your love) because he/she feels loved when he/she is told words of affirmation.
Click on the audio below to listen to Patrick Wanis with a detailed explanation and various examples of the languages of love and specifically how and why food is a language of love.
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Anointed “The Woman Expert” by WGN Chicago, Patrick Wanis PhD is a renowned Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert who developed SRTT therapy (Subconscious Rapid Transformation Technique) and is teaching it to other practitioners. Wanis’ clientele ranges from celebrities and CEOs to housewives and teenagers. CNN, BBC, FOX News, MSNBC & major news outlets worldwide consult Wanis for his expert insights and analysis on sexuality, human behavior and women’s issues. Wanis is the first person ever to do hypnotherapy on national TV – on the Montel Williams show.