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Comment on Abusive Lovers – Women Say It’s OK For A Man To Hit Her If She Deserved It by The Equality Wheel - What Is The Opposite Of Abusive Power & Control? ~ Patrick Wanis

Thu, 24 Nov 2022 14:29:13 +0000

[…] Domestic violence and abusive behavior are more than just about violence and controlling behavior; they are also about the power imbalance – whereby the abuser has all the power. Therefore, a heathy relationship is about equality. It is about being equal but not being the same or a 50/50 split; it is about equal power and balance without one person being totally dependent on or controlled by the other and without intense fear for survival of self and loved ones. […]

Comment on Beware of Projecting by 14 Tactics of Covert Manipulation ~ Patrick Wanis

14 Tactics of Covert Manipulation ~ Patrick Wanis — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 13:29:10 +0000

[…] 8. ProjectionWhen you project a movie onto a screen, you are seeing on the wall what exists inside the movie. The same principle applies to covert manipulation: the manipulator projects his own self onto you. The very things he dislikes about himself are the things he accuses you of being or doing. For example, he accuses you of being unfaithful when in fact, he is cheating on you. He accuses you of being unable to control certain behaviors when he is doing the same but he is in complete denial. Therefore, take notice of the words and criticisms he launches at you; they apply to him; he simply cannot accept those things about himself and so, he projects them onto you. Read about Josh Duggar, Pedophilia and Projection. […]

Comment on 20 Signs That You Are Being Gaslighted – Beware of Gaslighting by 14 Tactics of Covert Manipulation ~ Patrick Wanis

14 Tactics of Covert Manipulation ~ Patrick Wanis — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 17:59:09 +0000

[…] that you are insane or mentally unstable. It is closely linked to covert manipulation. There are 20 signs that you are being gaslighted, and one key sign is when he denies that something ever happened and tries to brainwash you into […]

Comment on That’s Just The Way I Am – Fixed VS Growth Mindset by The 5 Traits Of A Poor Leader And Parent ~ Patrick Wanis

The 5 Traits Of A Poor Leader And Parent ~ Patrick Wanis — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 17:29:09 +0000

[…] challenge the status quo and thus, to explore and grow. A strong leader implements and models the growth mindset. Accordingly, the parent and leader is open to learning and growing, freely admitting mistakes and […]

Comment on He’s Not Your Little Man or Man of The House by Another 10 Ways To Build Extraordinary Resiliency In Children ~ Patrick Wanis

Another 10 Ways To Build Extraordinary Resiliency In Children ~ Patrick Wanis — Sat, 29 Oct 2022 09:59:27 +0000

[…] the more resilient the child will become. I am not referring to the damaging phrases such as, ‘You are now the man of the house.’ I am referring to love, care, affection and encouragement which communicate to a child, ‘I am […]

Comment on Trauma’s Lifelong Impact On Health and How To Heal Trauma by Another 10 Ways To Build Extraordinary Resiliency In Children ~ Patrick Wanis

Another 10 Ways To Build Extraordinary Resiliency In Children ~ Patrick Wanis — Sat, 29 Oct 2022 09:59:11 +0000

[…] Adverse childhood events (ACEs) negatively impact children, and for life. They affect brain development, cognition, emotional control and regulation, social skills, relationship attachments, and physical health. Abuse, trauma, and other adverse childhood events create stress in the child; chronic stress changes brain architecture, and creates physical illnesses and diseases that worsen in adulthood. […]

Comment on The Top 10 Celebrity Meltdowns of 2015 by Cancel Culture Has Been Around Forever ~ Patrick Wanis

Cancel Culture Has Been Around Forever ~ Patrick Wanis — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 03:29:13 +0000

[…] 2015, Macy’s stores decided to stop selling Donald Trump’s merchandise. Trump’s response was to try and take Macy’s down, even gloating when its shares dropped. “I hope the boycott of @Macys continues forever. So many […]

Comment on Marriage First – Before Children – And Everything Else by Normal Marital Hatred – Is It Real? ~ Patrick Wanis

Normal Marital Hatred – Is It Real? ~ Patrick Wanis — Wed, 05 Oct 2022 21:59:21 +0000

[…] Your marriage is a union and partnership. […]

Comment on Why Don’t You Talk To Your Partner First? by Sexless Marriage? Alone, Disconnected, Unwanted, Rejected? It Could Be Intimacy Anorexia ~ Patrick Wanis

Wed, 21 Sep 2022 22:29:15 +0000

[…] Definition: Intimacy is Into-Me-You-See: I allow you to see into […]

Comment on 14 Steps to Get Out Now Of Toxic Relationship or Marriage by Are People Doing The Best That They Can? This Might Change Your Life! ~ Patrick Wanis

Wed, 20 Jul 2022 20:29:54 +0000

[…] does not imply that you lose boundaries or respect for yourself. If the relationship is toxic, then you end it to protect yourself. You don’t subject yourself to the abuse of other people! […]