Comments on: Physical Self-Confidence Vs Emotional Self-Confidence https://www.patrickwanis.com/physical-self-confidence-emotional-confidence/ Human Behavior Expert Thu, 30 Aug 2018 08:32:15 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.4 By: Patrick Wanis https://www.patrickwanis.com/physical-self-confidence-emotional-confidence/#comment-5547 Wed, 10 Oct 2012 21:52:22 +0000 http://patrickwanis.com/blog/?p=3111#comment-5547 Excellent insights Erol.
Yes, often we can also have a perception and belief that the physical injury can quickly heal (because every one of us has had an accident and experienced healing) while we might have already been emotionally hurt and we conclude “I couldn’t handle that again.”
Thanks for your insights and wisdom.
Patrick

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By: Erol Fox https://www.patrickwanis.com/physical-self-confidence-emotional-confidence/#comment-5546 Wed, 10 Oct 2012 21:24:59 +0000 http://patrickwanis.com/blog/?p=3111#comment-5546 Maybe it’s the difference between the fear of being physically hurt vs. emotionally hurt. Hurt to my body vs. hurt to my ego (my false self).

This may equate to being vulnerable. Some can be psychically vulnerable. Like the guys in “Jackass”, the only risk is breaking something, maybe dying. But a worse hurt is reject, the loss of love, which diminish our ego, our false self, which is a slow & lifelong death.

That’s why walking across hot coals doesn’t translate into really selling our services, for example. Rejection is a greater fear than physical death. Letting go the fear of body injury is completely different than being cast out of society.

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