Can you tell the truth from the myths?
While women are highly perceptive they still haven’t yet completely figured out the male psyche? Women have many unique perceptions and misconceptions about men. Can you distinguish the truths from the myths?
- Do men truly want somebody just like their mother?
- Can a woman change her man?
- Does a man want to know the dating history of his partner?
- Do men truly love “bitches”?
Patrick Wanis is a Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior and Relationship Expert and author. In his new two-CD audio book, “Get the man you WANT!”, Wanis identifies the ten major perceptions women have about men. And five of them are myths, five of them truths. Can you distinguish the truths from the myths? Take the test and then compare your responses with the expert’s answers below.
| BELIEFS WOMEN HAVE ABOUT MEN |
TRUE |
| 1. Men are not interested in what women have to say – unless it’s about sport, food and sex | |
| 2. Men want somebody who is just like their mother | |
| 3. Men only think about sex | |
| 4. He’s spoiling me, so he must have plenty of cash to splash |
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| 5. If I sleep with him on the first date, he won’t respect me | |
| 6. I can change him | |
| 7. Men are interested in a woman’s dating history | |
| 8. Men don’t like women who make the first move | |
| 9. Men prefer “bitches” | |
| 10. Men prefer young women |
THE MYTHS AND TRUTHS
1. Men are not interested in what women have to say – unless it’s about sport, food and sex
False – men do want to know what women have to say –they just are not good at knowing how to communicate with women
2. Men want somebody who is just like their mother True –but they don’t know it…
Although men want to be loved, nurtured and often spoiled, they are subconsciously attracted to women who are similar to their mom
3. Men only think about sex -False
Men do think a lot about sex (generally more than women) but men too, yearn for an emotional connection. When women evolve to place priorities on children and family, the man still wants regular sex
4. He’s spoiling me, so he must have plenty of cash to splash -True and False
Some guys will go into debt to initially impress and win a woman
5. If I sleep with him on the first date, he won’t respect me -True
Men are innately hunters and prize the rare catch. If the woman is too easy to win, he feels she is not so special – even though he may be the one pressuring her to sleep with him.
6. I can change him -False
Women fall in love with a man’s potential and plan to change him for the better and then become despondent when they realize they can’t change him.
7. Men are interested in a woman’s dating history -False –they prefer not to know
The male ego says “I am the first, the best and the only one able to please you!”
8. Men don’t like women who make the first move True –if they want a long-term relationship
An apparent contradiction – the male ego is initially stroked and flattered by a woman who makes the first move but he usually gets bored in the long-term because men like to be the hunter –not the hunted.
9. Men prefer “bitches” -False
Some men with low self-esteem choose women who are controlling. Men are, though, attracted to women who know their own mind and are clear about what they want.
10. Men prefer young women –True
Men prefer young women but not for the reasons women think: men are attracted to the women who are young in spirit, playful, take care of their bodies and looks, and still have a passion for life.
Patrick Wanis’ book “Get the man you WANT!” is available as an audio book on 2 CDS orMP3 files. www.parickwanis.com and click on CDs – Audio Books
Anointed “The Woman Expert” by WGN Chicago, Patrick Wanis PhD is a renowned Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert who developed SRTT therapy (Subconscious Rapid Transformation Technique) and is teaching it to other practitioners. Wanis’ clientele ranges from celebrities and CEOs to housewives and teenagers. CNN, BBC, FOX News, MSNBC & major news outlets worldwide consult Wanis for his expert insights and analysis on sexuality, human behavior and women’s issues. Wanis is the first person ever to do hypnotherapy on national TV – on the Montel Williams show.