Men’s Issues – Patrick Wanis https://www.patrickwanis.com Human Behavior Expert Wed, 06 Apr 2022 01:15:35 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.4 https://www.patrickwanis.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/cropped-fav-32x32.png Men’s Issues – Patrick Wanis https://www.patrickwanis.com 32 32 Brett Favre Sabotages His Legacy https://www.patrickwanis.com/brett-favre-sabotages-his-legacy-audio/ Fri, 21 Nov 2014 11:08:15 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9855 Retired Minnesota Vikings quarterback Brett Favre admitted to inappropriate texting and is now being sued by two former NY Jets employees over allegations of sexual…

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Retired Minnesota Vikings quarterback Brett Favre admitted to inappropriate texting and is now being sued by two former NY Jets employees over allegations of sexual misconduct.
What possibly motivated his behavior?

The KXNT Morning News spoke with Human Behavior Expert and Celebrity Life Coach Patrick Wanis PhD for his opinion. Patrick Wanis PhD explores the Brett Favre’s motivations. Is he clinging to the past and trying to be an adolescent? Patrick Wanis reveals that sexual conquests is not the definition of manhood and that Brett Favre should be focusing on his legacy – contributing rather conquering.

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Audio Interview On Racism And Violence Against Women https://www.patrickwanis.com/is-racism-more-important-than-violence-against-women-2-audio/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/is-racism-more-important-than-violence-against-women-2-audio/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:59:21 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9849 While people are angry at Mel Gibson they are ignoring Charlie Sheen who has been charged with allegedly putting a knife to his wife’s throat.…

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Is Racism More Important Than Violence Against Women? Photo: Mel Gibson pleaded no contest to a misdemeanor battery charge stemming from a fight involving his then-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva in 2011. Gibson received 36 months informal probation and about $500 in fines. He must also complete 16 hours community service and a 52-week domestic violence counseling program
Is Racism More Important Than Violence Against Women? Photo: Mel Gibson pleaded no contest to a misdemeanor battery charge stemming from a fight involving his then-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva in 2011. Gibson received 36 months informal probation and about $500 in fines. He must also complete 16 hours community service and a 52-week domestic violence counseling program

While people are angry at Mel Gibson they are ignoring Charlie Sheen who has been charged with allegedly putting a knife to his wife’s throat.

And according to Celebrity Life Coach and Human Behavior & Relationship Expert, Patrick Wanis PhD:

“We give free-passes to people we like and we react harsher to racist remarks than we do to actual violence against women – although both are seriously wrong.”

“The media and public have been quite vocal in expressing opinions and judgments about Mel Gibson and his ex-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva; some calling Mel Gibson a racist violent monster while others call Oksana a gold digger but with so many recordings and media coverage, Mel Gibson has become a joke – a kind of drunken modern-day Archie Bunker – and now the attention has turned off domestic violence. California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger compared Mel Gibson to the Gulf of Mexico oil leak saying Gibson could not be contained.”

Russ Morley, host of the morning show on News/Talk 850 WFTL interviews Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert Patrick Wanis, PhD for insights into the Mel Gibson meltdown and why Hollywood and the media are being quiet about Charlie Sheen and the charges of assault against his wife. Patrick Wanis PhD reveals that “We are showing favoritism towards Charlie Sheen. We watch Charlie Sheen on his weekly TV show and for almost 7 years, and we welcome his TV character and welcome him in life as a bad boy but we refuse to see him as a man who has abused a woman. The reality of his abuse, of his violence against a woman, is ignored because people generally seem to like him, to find him affable, viewing him as basically just a boy who is slightly wild and has not yet grown up. If we had heard the conversation between Charlie and his wife, would we still be giving him the free=pass? People quickly condemned Chris Brown for assaulting Rihanna but was that because we saw the photo of her bruised face or because Chris Brown is black and so our bias and prejudice spiked our anger and condemnation?” Patrick Wanis PhD also discusses the detrimental effect the Mel Gibson and Oksana case is having on the real issue of domestic violence and Battered Woman’s Syndrome.

Read more about Battered Woman’s Syndrome and read the article by Patrick Wanis “Is racism more important than violence against women?”

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Relationships Male Brain Vs Female Brain https://www.patrickwanis.com/relationships-male-vs-female-brain-audio/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/relationships-male-vs-female-brain-audio/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:22:18 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9833 While it might be politically incorrect to suggest that there does not exist a unisex brain and that men and women have different brains, it…

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Relationships Male Brain Vs Female Brain

While it might be politically incorrect to suggest that there does not exist a unisex brain and that men and women have different brains, it is scientifically correct to make such an assertion. And the differences between men’s and women’s brains greatly impacts their relationships.

Testosterone begins to change the human brain in the fetus; it “marinates the brain” in the male and of course, cultural and societal programming also add to the differences between men and women.

Research shows there are 6 key critical differences between men and women as a result of the differing makeup of the brain in females and the brain in males.

Robert Holmes is an expert in the science of human behavior and performance enhancement with a passion for neurology, leadership and psychology. The Australian army ceased their leadership coaching program, and hired Robert Holmes and his company to work with Australian army to coach wounded ill and injured soldiers returning from service. Robert also leads 4-day retreats for married couples to help them learn from the neurological differences so they can understand each other and improve their relationships. www.frazerholmes.com

Celebrity Life Coach and Human Behavior Expert, Patrick Wanis PhD interviews Robert for his insights into the differences between the brains and what you can do right now to transform your relationship – argue less, love more, get your needs met and feel understood! Click below and listen to the interview now.

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Why Men Cheat? https://www.patrickwanis.com/why-men-cheat/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/why-men-cheat/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:17:52 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9827 What pushes, inspires, encourages or leads a man to cheat? Is it lust, power, boredom, escape or something missing in the relationship? Is a handsome…

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Why Men Cheat?
Why Men Cheat?

What pushes, inspires, encourages or leads a man to cheat? Is it lust, power, boredom, escape or something missing in the relationship? Is a handsome man more likely to cheat than a man who has power, influence and money? Why would someone married to a successful, beautiful woman choose to cheat on her such as Shania Twain’s famous music producer husband, John “Mutt Lange” did? Patrick Wanis joins famous radio personalities Eddie and Tracy of 700 WLW Ohio to share his insights into male behavior, the male ego, and the human brain and its five core emotions that can lead to cheating. Patrick also reveals how women can also fall prey to the power and drive of the reptilian part of the human brain.

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Women Are To Blame For Men Cheating – Audio https://www.patrickwanis.com/women-are-to-blame-for-men-cheating-audio/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/women-are-to-blame-for-men-cheating-audio/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:16:53 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9823 A book by a marriage counselor claims women are to blame when men cheat because women don’t show enough appreciation to their man and they…

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Women Are To Blame For Men Cheating - Audio
Women Are To Blame For Men Cheating – Audio

A book by a marriage counselor claims women are to blame when men cheat because women don’t show enough appreciation to their man and they don’t value their man sufficiently. “The Truth about Cheating” by Gary Neuman says the no. 1 reason men cheat is “feeling underappreciated – a lack of thoughtful gestures” by the woman. Gary Neuman says cheaters are not the bad, rotten guys; “they can also be nice guys that get lost and do the wrong thing.” But Human Behavior Expert and Clinical Hypnotherapist Patrick Wanis PhD, says “Again here is another man who removes the responsibility of infidelity from the man who cheated and places it right in the lap of the woman by claiming that it is women’s responsibility to build up the man and make him feel valued because Neuman claims that is what men are searching for and expecting from women.” Patrick Wanis joins radio personalities Richard Stevens and Lori St. James to share his insights and explain why Gary Neuman’s claim is false and destructive to women’s self-esteem. Patrick also reveals that Neuman’s experience as a marriage counselor is being poorly used to simply repeat the excuses that men give and omits the empowering lesson that men and women should learn: we all have choices about how we react to the way people “make” or leave us feeling.

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Cheating & Narcissism: Lessons From Peter Cook https://www.patrickwanis.com/cheating-narcissism-lessons-from-peter-cook-audio/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/cheating-narcissism-lessons-from-peter-cook-audio/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:13:04 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9821 Peter Cook former husband of supermodel Christie Brinkley told Barbara Walters on ABC’s “20/20,” that he blames Brinkley for his affair: “I wanted a little…

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Peter Cook former husband of supermodel Christie Brinkley told Barbara Walters on ABC’s “20/20,” that he blames Brinkley for his affair:

Cheating & Narcissism Lessons From Peter Cook
Cheating & Narcissism Lessons From Peter Cook

“I wanted a little acknowledgement, a little attention, a little thank-you every now and then for my efforts, for the amount of time I took to care for her and my family, for the wealth I was building.”

But Human Behavior Expert and Clinical Hypnotherapist Patrick Wanis PhD, says “Cook’s excuse is more than demeaning to women; it’s shameful when you consider that Cook had an affair with an eighteen year-old girl.” Patrick Wanis joins the ladies of XM radio’s Broadminded show to reveal the real psychological and behavioral motivations behind Cook’s affair and subsequent actions of blaming Christie Brinkley. Patrick reveals the link between narcissism and cheating, and, explores the issues of personal accountability and responsibility relating to how we respond to the way other people make us feel

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Why Powerful Men Cheat With Powerless Women Audio By Patrick Wanis https://www.patrickwanis.com/why-powerful-men-cheat-with-powerless-women-do-french-believe-in-innocent-until-proven-guilty-more-than-americans-do-audio/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/why-powerful-men-cheat-with-powerless-women-do-french-believe-in-innocent-until-proven-guilty-more-than-americans-do-audio/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:12:10 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9818 Just a few days apart: The former head of the International Monetary Fund, Dominique Strauss-Kahn, was freed from jail on a million (US) dollars bail…

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Why Powerful Men Cheat With Powerless Women & Do The French Believe In innocent until proven guilty More Than Americans Do
Why Powerful Men Cheat With Powerless Women & Do The French Believe In innocent until proven guilty More Than Americans Do

Just a few days apart: The former head of the International Monetary Fund, Dominique Strauss-Kahn, was freed from jail on a million (US) dollars bail on the condition he be confined to a New York apartment under armed guard while he awaits trial on attempted-rape charges and; actor and former California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger admitted that he cheated on his wife Maria Shriver and fathered a secret child ten years ago with his household staffer – Mildred Patricia Baena – the housekeeper of 20 years.

Why do powerful men cheat and why do powerful men cheat with powerless women? (Arnold Schwarzenegger with his housekeeper, Charlie Sheen has admitted to using prostitutes, Kobe Bryant cheated with a hotel employee in Colorado, President Bill Clinton with an intern and Dominique Strauss-Kahn charged with attempted rape of a hotel maid…)

Radio New Zealand National’s Jim Mora interviews Human Behavior Expert Patrick Wanis PhD for his insights about why powerful men cheat and why they do this with powerless women; Patrick also reveals how men transform and become infected and corrupted when they become powerful and; power is an aphrodisiac to women. Patrick Wanis PhD also cites Lord Acton who in 1887 said “All power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely.”

Also listen here to other radio interviews by Patrick Wanis on cheating such as Power leads to cheating – politicians, athletes & celebrities

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Abusive Lovers – Women Say It’s OK For A Man To Hit Her If She Deserved It https://www.patrickwanis.com/abusive-lovers-women-say-ok-man-to-hit-woman-if-she-deserved-it-audio/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/abusive-lovers-women-say-ok-man-to-hit-woman-if-she-deserved-it-audio/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 09:07:40 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9801 One in three teens is abused in a relationship and every day, three women die as result of abuse. Domestic violence is a serious problem…

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Abusive Lovers – Women Say It's OK For A Man To Hit Her If She Deserved It
Abusive Lovers – Women Say It’s OK For A Man To Hit Her If She Deserved It

One in three teens is abused in a relationship and every day, three women die as result of abuse. Domestic violence is a serious problem that is not limited by economic, cultural, educational or geographic factors: R & B singer and celebrity Chris Brown is charged with beating his girlfriend, singer Rihanna. And it seems that today’s children are learning that violence is an acceptable and appropriate response to a domestic disagreement and that it is OK to hit a woman.

According to a new survey by the Boston Public Health Commission, nearly half of Boston-area teenagers say Rihanna (age 21) was responsible for Brown’s alleged attack. The survey of 200 Boston youths age 12 to 19 found that 51% said Brown was to blame, 46% said Rihanna was to blame, and 52% said both were to blame for the incident. In addition, 52% said the media were treating Brown unfairly, and “a significant number of males and females” surveyed said Rihanna was destroying Brown’s career. But teenage females are not the only ones that think it is OK to hit a woman. Recent surveys in the UK and Australia reveal that large percentages of women think it is OK for a man to hit her if she deserved it or provoked it.

Russ Morley, host of the morning show on News/Talk 850 WFTL interviews Celebrity Life Coach and Human Behavior Expert Patrick Wanis, PhD for insights into abusive relationships and domestic violence. Why are women blaming women? What can parents do? Are abusive lovers a new problem? How has the hip-hop culture added or exaggerated the problem?

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The Psychological Motivations Behind Eiliot Spitzer’s Sex Scandal? https://www.patrickwanis.com/the-psychological-motivations-behind-eliot-spitzers-sex-scandal-audio/ https://www.patrickwanis.com/the-psychological-motivations-behind-eliot-spitzers-sex-scandal-audio/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 08:10:57 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9761 “The wife is supposed to take care of the sex. This is my failing; I wasn’t adequate” said Silda Wall Spitzer, the wife of Governor…

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The Psychological Motivations Behind Eiliot Spitzer’s Sex Scandal
The Psychological Motivations Behind Eiliot Spitzer’s Sex Scandal

“The wife is supposed to take care of the sex. This is my failing; I wasn’t adequate” said Silda Wall Spitzer, the wife of Governor Eliot Spitzer who used a young, high-priced prostitute.

New York Governor Eliot Spitzer’s downfall came when it was revealed he had been using the services of prostitutes for years. Spitzer was the man who led strong, stinging campaigns against corruption and prostitution. How did this happen? Lust, pride, power, delusions of grandeur, risk-taking, self-loathing or something else? Patrick Wanis joins the ladies of XM radio’s Broadminded show to reveal the real psychological, neurological and behavioral motivations behind Spitzer’s actions. Patrick provokes controversy when he reveals that society believes sex is much more evil than violence; why do we allow children to play violent video games? Patrick also reveals how males in society use sex for control and power.

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The Ten Myths Men Have About Women https://www.patrickwanis.com/the-ten-myths-men-have-about-women-audio/ Fri, 21 Nov 2014 03:13:55 +0000 http://patrick-wanis.com/?p=9661 Steve Cochran takes on Patrick Wanis as they discuss the Ten Myths Men have about Women. Patrick points out that five are myths and five…

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The Ten Myths Men Have About Women
The Ten Myths Men Have About Women

Steve Cochran takes on Patrick Wanis as they discuss the Ten Myths Men have about Women. Patrick points out that five are myths and five are truths. Can you guess which ones are truths? Patrick reveals the myths and truths from his audio book, “Get The Man You WANT!” 

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