12. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery. Patrick Wanis Ph.D.Anointed “The…
In fact, we believe we must be so extremely different and unique, that we even want to have our own unique pronouns. And we expect…
Domestic violence and abusive behavior are more than just about violence and controlling behavior; they are also about the power imbalance – whereby the abuser…
Expect that he will display enormous amounts of contradictions and hypocritical behaviors. He wants you to feel worthless, confused, lost, destabilized and dependent on him.…
At home and at work, every individual wants to know that their leader/parent actually cares about them as individuals, about their values, interests, hopes, and…
If there are ongoing adverse events such as the father or mother of the child continues to be abusive or harmful, then your ability to…
We have always been bias, wanting people to speak and think the way we do, and punishing them if they don’t! We have also always…
Some men said it gave them a feeling of control over the other person they sent the unsolicited dick pic! The desire for power and…
Normal Marital Hatred – This man is stating that you should expect to hate your romantic partner – dislike them intensely and harbor ill will…
You know that you were robbed of your childhood if you only knew pain and suffering; you carried heavy burdens, or you never felt that…
Did you know there are 3 types of validation? The first builds confidence and security in you. The second shapes you to be both critical…
In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to like to reveal the 7 reasons you want them to change – you want someone to……
So yes, ghosting hurts because your identity is not formed in isolation, and you do care about what others say and think of you! Patrick…
The theory that depression is caused by a ‘chemical imbalance’ or low serotonin was first proposed in the 1960s, but it was in the 1990s…
You believe that everyone can do better and they should be doing better. You were probably taught that belief as a child. Your parents might…
Look at your own challenges at handling your child’s emotions because this usually reflects your challenge to handle your own emotions. One client told me…
Most parents want their child to fit a preconceived mold and to be a certain way. “Why don’t you want to become a …? Why…
Transforming positively from hardships, suffering and traumatic events is not a given; and it takes a combination of factors to be realized. Do not diminish…
The level and extent to which you have become dependent upon the relationship will determine your level of commitment and its hold over you! Patrick…
For example, when a person cuts or burns themselves (or some other form of self-harm/self-injury), he/she is acting out as a way to cope with…