Get What You Want
The following is the contents list from Patrick Wanis’ book,
“Get What You Want!” Copyright WOW Media 2006.
This ebook is also available as an AUDIO book, read by Patrick Wanis.
See also Patrick’s book ”Get the man you WANT!” Available as an AUDIO book.
Will you be stopped –
or will nothing stop you?
What do you want from life? Self-esteem, supreme confidence, more money, wealth, health, love, joy, better and more rewarding relationships, a better job, financial freedom, inner peace, the ability to overcome crippling habits, personal power. Have you ever wondered what is the difference between the haves and the have-nots, the successful people and the failures? Is it chance, luck, timing, favorable circumstances, contacts and connections, will power, advantages of birth, fate, destiny or some secret gift or power?
What would you say if I were to tell you that you have the power to create your destiny and obtain anything you want, and that you have been already using this power to create your present circumstances and everything you have in your life?
Maybe you have already heard it said that you are responsible for everything that happens in your life but has anyone ever taught you how to create what you want?
What I am about to share with you in this book is the greatest and most powerful secret in existence. This secret and its associated techniques are the ones used by the most successful people in history.
The techniques, revelations and information in this book are based on decades and decades of research into the mind, human behavior and the habits and strategies of the most successful people. It also draws upon the skills and principles behind hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (used to change beliefs, behavior and results.) In this book I teach you the technique to master your mind and attract into your life everything you want. It doesn’t matter what your present situation is or how many times you might have failed in the past, with a simple technique that takes a matter of minutes of daily practice, you will transform your life and get what you want.
Let’s begin first by identifying what you want.
GET WHAT YOU WANT! ©
-By Patrick Wanis
WOW Media, 2006
Author’s Note 6
What Do You Want? 9
Everything is Energy 15
The Power of Belief 22
Mastering Your Mind 29
Visualizing Your Success 39
Overcoming Fear 49
Love and Relationships 55
Creating Wealth 65
Your Daily Program 70
Sharing Your Gifts 72
Visualize It 75
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
If you decide to get what you want, then you must first be clear about what you want.
We experience life in four realms: Mental, Emotional, Physical and Spiritual. Establishing your goals and intentions in all of these areas leads to deep satisfaction, fulfillment and happiness…
Here is a simple exercise comprised of four parts that I give to clients that will help to identify what you want and to confirm that what you say you want is your deep desire and passion…
Fear is what holds us all back. When we can conquer fear, we can have whatever we want. Later in this book, I teach you how to conquer fear.
To get what you want will require devotion, dedication and commitment to the practice of the technique I am about to share with you. Therefore, the single factor that will determine your commitment is your passion. In other words, the answer to why you want something is more important than the answer to how you will get it.
Another simple exercise to assist you in determining if you have passion for the things you claim you want…
EVERYTHING IS ENERGY
Science tells us that everything in the universe is made up of atoms. And inside each atom are electromagnetic charges –protons, electrons and neutrons. And in groups, atoms form molecules. Therefore, everything is energy and is in constant vibration….
Calories are the measurement of the energy value of food, and science measures how much energy we burn when we are at rest and when we exercise.
Everything we see can be measured as vibrational energy –as frequency…
Our energy affects others and the energy of others affects us…
Our thoughts and beliefs are also energy. They attract similar energy and because everything is energy, our thoughts and beliefs impact the world around us.
The two worlds
We often think of ourselves as victims, powerless over what happens to us, believing that life happens to us and we have nothing do with it. To our senses it appears that luck, fate, and chance determine what occurs in our life.
Is that the truth? Are we separate from our lives? Do we have no control over what happens to us?
There are two worlds –The Outer World and The Inner World. For example…
This story is an example of the interaction between The Inner World (our emotions and thoughts) and The Outer World (physical occurrences and events)…
We are constantly living in reaction to what happens in the outer world…
We can only experience and feel happiness, confidence and fear in our inner world –our emotions and consciousness. In other words, our inner world is…
True personal power begins when we can control our inner world, when we can control the way we react, think and feel to what happens outside of us…
And yes, the outer world does affect our inner world but the greatest news, the secret, is that our inner world also affects our outer world, what we experience and create in our life.
THE POWER OF BELIEF
My first insight into the power of the mind began when I was performing stage hypnosis shows. I witnessed amazing feats by my hypnotized volunteers. In an instant, they would change their physical state. With just a simple suggestion from me, hypnotized volunteers would be drunk, laugh uncontrollably or eat a raw onion without crying or cringing – I told them it was a peach. That was the key: their belief.
By hypnotizing these people, I tapped directly into their subconscious mind, changed their beliefs for the duration of the show, and thus created a new reality for each one of them. I use the same process of hypnosis for clients who want to make permanent changes in their lives. Later, I this book I show you how to tap into your subconscious mind, change your inner world of thoughts and beliefs and get what you want.
On May 6, 1954, Roger Bannister ran the first sub-four-minute mile in recorded history. From that day onwards, many people have run the four-minute-mile. Why? Because they believed they could.
What do you believe about yourself?
Norman Cousins was stricken with a crippling and life-threatening collagen disease. He made a miraculous recovery by….
Healing yourself physically & motionally
Louise Hay is an author, teacher and speaker who cured herself of cancer. Louise says we create our reality based on our thoughts and beliefs about what we deserve. Louise had a tormented upbringing….
All of the above cases are examples of how the inner world affects the outer world, and how each person is able to change their outer world, their reality, by changing their inner world.
Jim Carrey is the highest paid comic of all time. Back in 1987, Carrey was just a struggling comic…
…he wrote himself a check for $20 million. He dated it Thanksgiving 1995, and when Cable Guy was released in 1996, Carrey was paid $20 million for his role.
How did Carrey manifest the money? Was it luck or coincidence? As you will see, Carrey tapped into the enormous power of the subconscious mind.
MASTERING YOUR MIND
Change your beliefs and you change your reality. Jim Carrey created new thoughts, beliefs and visualization regarding what he is paid and what he is worth. Jim Carrey was reprogramming his subconscious mind. This is what hypnosis does: it reprograms your subconscious mind and…
In this section, I teach you how to take charge of your mind and reprogram it to get what you want.
Tend to your garden
The human mind is primarily made up of the conscious and the subconscious. The conscious mind is your analytical ability or filter. The subconscious is the seat of emotions, controlling your heart, digestion, circulatory and nervous systems.
The thoughts and beliefs stored in your subconscious mind determine how you feel and how you act. Here’s how you can plant new thoughts and change your old negative beliefs so that you can get what you want…
The process of manifestation works with three steps…
Beliefs form your experience
A belief is not an absolute truth. It is a thought, an interpretation of reality. It is neither good nor bad. It is simply empowering or disempowering. Thoughts are just thoughts (i.e. you can change them) but sustained thoughts will create according to their type…
Here’s how to change them…
The key to getting what you want, once you know exactly what you want, is to…
The fastest way to do this is through hypnosis, which accesses the subconscious mind. You can achieve the same result on your own by…
Ask -and you shall receive
The concept that your inner world of beliefs creates your outer world is not new. It has been around a very long time. Two thousand years ago, Jesus said: “And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.” Put simply, whatever you ask and believe you will receive.
Origins of your beliefs
How did we come about to plant the seeds and weeds that are in our garden? Was it chance?
Beliefs are formed by one of two ways…
Now as an adult you can take deliberate control of what is planted in your garden. Now is the time to change your beliefs, seeds and weeds to get what you want. We can use the same technique that created our initial limiting beliefs to create our new desired empowering beliefs.
Creating new beliefs
An exercise to change what you believe about yourself, your self-worth and what you deserve…
Planting new seeds
Take your list of new intentions and beliefs and….
…Most people who try affirmations fail because…
The key to success is…
VISUALIZING YOUR SUCCESS
The subconscious mind operates with pictures and symbols. It takes every thought, turns it into a picture and sends messages to the body…
Visualizing your goals turns them into a reality because it works four ways…
Making it real
A detailed explanation of how to use the Creative Visualization Technique to create your reality and get what you want.
Be careful not to…
Emotionalize what you visualize
The key to the success of this exercise is the…
Begin by allowing five minutes each day to…
Reaping the rewards
A case study of a client who used these techniques and within a couple of months went from being a mechanic to landing his dream job traveling as a graphic artist for large-scale corporate shows.
The Great trickster
John Kehoe, author of Mind Power –into the 21st Century, coined the term The Great Trickster when referring to the human mind. John says that our mind fools, limits and deceives us in various ways…
Later, I outline specific techniques to help conquer fear.
Eliminating negative thoughts
The Great Trickster will do its best to bombard you with negative thoughts…
Here are four powerful and effective techniques to eliminate negative thoughts. Choose the one that excites you and apply it whenever the Great Trickster rears its ugly head. Be aware, it will do so, right when you least expect it, right at the critical time when you need positive reinforcement to face a new challenge…
Fear is the greatest killer of all human potential. Fear is what stops us from even trying to get what we want. Fear stands between us and everything we want out of life.
Fear, though does not exist.
Fear is simply a thought, a very powerful thought. Fear is the anticipation of pain…
…fear is always set in the future. We cannot experience fear in the present moment.
Fear comes from The Great Trickster
If we were to listen to fear, we would never attempt anything in life.
Obviously one of the ways to conquer fear is to…
A power greater than Fear
Here are six simple techniques to select from when you are faced with fear…
“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face” (Eleanor Roosevelt).
LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS
The power behind this technique is that you can use it get what you want in any area of your life. You can use it to improve your existing relationship or to get the love or ideal partner that you want.
Clarity is power
When you know exactly what you want it is easy to find it because you know what you are looking for and you can quickly identify it when it passes before your eyes. Clarity about what you want is power because you can stop wasting your time when you are presented with something that you instantly know you do not want. Accept only the best –and no less…
See also Wanis’ new hypnosis audio program “Feel Good About Yourself!” It works on releasing subconscious blocks to your goals and desires –be they ideal weight, money, health, love, joy or success. It reinforces at a very deep level that you deserve the best and you deserve to be happy, successful and be free to express yourself. It will also raise your self-esteem, confidence and self-worth and helps to remove subconscious motives and beliefs that lead to self-sabotage.
The five key steps to determine who is your perfect match and how to attract him or her into your life…
Attracting your perfect match
You now have a strong profile of your ideal partner or perfect match, and you know exactly what he or she will look like. The next step is to…
Set aside 5 minutes each day to…
Now that you understand that we create our own reality, that we are responsible for everything that happens to us, then you understand that money or the lack of it is not the problem, it is simply the symptom of another problem: your limiting, negative thoughts and beliefs. Your outer world is simply a reflection of your inner world. To change our results, we must change our thoughts.
Changing your mind about money
What do you believe about money? Is it easy to get or hard to come by? Is money the root of all evil? Can a spiritual person also be rich? Do you deserve to be rich and wealthy?
To change your beliefs about money, you must first uncover what they are. I suggest the following exercise….
Based on your childhood experiences you subconsciously made associations, conclusions and generalizations about money, life, the world and what you deserve.
Some simple exercises that to identify your associations with money.
Now combine these four answers with the earlier exercise (what you saw, heard and experienced with money) and write a complete list of all of your beliefs about money and wealth. Now write out your five key beliefs regarding money.
Now take the five key negative beliefs you have and turn each one of them around. For example…
Take all the new positive, empowering beliefs and use them in your daily exercise.
YOUR DAILY PROGRAM
At the beginning of this book, I asked, “Will you be stopped -or will nothing stop you?”
Many people, even those who are clear about they want, never get what they want out of life because they might be well aware of the secrets and techniques to getting what they want but fail to apply and practice them. These techniques are not philosophies. They are designed to be practiced -daily. If your desire is to get results, then practice them daily.
Here is my Daily Program that I have created and use to condition my mind for love, success and happiness…
Take small steps each day and become dedicated to the practice of these techniques to change your inner world and you will reap the rewards in the outer world.
You will produce spectacular results in your life. Let nothing stop you from being, doing and having what you want.
SHARING YOUR GIFTS
You are now clear about what you intend to create in your life and you now hold in your hands the secrets of how to make it your reality.
There is one final secret key ingredient to getting what you want, everything that you want. And this missing piece is the guarantee that you will also be able to fully enjoy the harvest of your garden, feeling deeply satisfied.
Here then is the final key…
Inspirational and insightful quotations…
“As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is.”
– Proverbs 23:7
“We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. And with our thoughts, we make our world.”
Anointed “The Woman Expert” by WGN Chicago, Patrick Wanis PhD is a renowned Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert who developed SRTT therapy (Subconscious Rapid Transformation Technique) and is teaching it to other practitioners. Wanis’ clientele ranges from celebrities and CEOs to housewives and teenagers. CNN, BBC, FOX News, MSNBC & major news outlets worldwide consult Wanis for his expert insights and analysis on sexuality, human behavior and women’s issues. Wanis is the first person ever to do hypnotherapy on national TV – on the Montel Williams show.