“Macy Gray kicked off her month-long US tour last night by shocking her fans when she closed the concert with her emotional rendition of John Lennon’s ‘Woman is the Nigger of the World’,” says Human Behavior & Relationship Expert and Celebrity Life Coach, Patrick Wanis.
Wanis, who attended the concert in Hollywood Florida was affected. “In our male-dominated society, the song rings true thirty-five years later. We are still threatened by women’s beauty, intelligence and freedom of expression, particularly her sexual expression:
“We make her paint her face and dance
If she won’t be slave, we say that she don’t love us…” John Lennon
Music, media and fashion are geared primarily towards the pleasure of the man – not the woman e.g. Hip-hop music says that the woman who has numerous sexual partners is a “ho” –whore, but the man who conquers many women is to be idolized as powerful – a stud or pimp. It also promotes the concept that the female is designed to please, serve and satisfy the male. Wanis says despite the movements for female empowerment and freedom, many men still dump their wife or girlfriend for a younger woman:
“We make her bear and raise our children
And then we leave her flat for being a fat old mother hen” – John Lennon
“It is time for us to evolve to a level of genuine equality and freedom of self-expression whereby we no longer fear the potential of either gender but embrace it. In my new hypnosis CD “Enjoy Sex –…for Women, I promote to all women a focus on reprogramming the negative conditioning by men surrounding sex and the female body, to release guilt and begin to love yourself and your body.”
Originally from Australia, Patrick Wanis, is a Celebrity Life-Coach, Author and an Expert in Human Behavior and Relationships. He is a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Clinical Hypnotherapist with a PhD in Health Psychology in 2007. Wanis is a regular contributor to FOX News. Wanis coaches and works with various celebrities. WGN Chicago and Syndicated TV show, “The Daily Buzz” anointed him “The Woman Expert” and FOX News pronounced him ”A voice for women.” Over four million people have read Wanis’ books in English and Spanish. https://www.patrickwanis.com
Patrick Wanis, PhD, is a renowned relationship and behavioral expert with over 25 years of experience. Creator of SRTT Therapy (Subconscious Rapid Transformation Technique), he specializes in resolving root causes of trauma and other conditions without reliving pain or retraumatization. He has developed various psychological assessments on emotional intelligence, relationships, self-sabotage, and authenticity, and serves diverse clients from celebrities to teens. A trusted media source, Global media including CNN, BBC, FOX News turn to Wanis for insights into relationships, sexuality, human motivation, trauma, communication, body language, and persuasion.