Should women be feminine to please men?
Should a woman be feminine in order to snag or catch a man?
This is Part 4 of 5 Parts of the transcript of Patrick Wanis PhD answering questions and sharing insights with Christelyn D. Karazin of www.beyondblackwhite.com on the topic of what it really means to be feminine. Click here for Part 3: “Femininity, feminism and the dangers of independence”: https://patrickwanis.com/blog/femininity-feminism-dangers-independence/
All right, let’s look at your next question, which I think was probably the most important question.
You said, “By and large, men prefer feminine women.” Yes, 100%.
Oh, this is what I want to say about this. The more feminine a woman is, the more she’ll inspire the masculine in a man and vice versa. If a woman acts masculine, she’s not going to attract a man who is masculine. She’s going to attract the man that’s feminine because he going to — that the feminine man is going to be attracted to the masculine woman to create the balance.
Incidentally, I do not encourage women to be feminine so that they can get a man, snag a man, attract the man, get married. I encourage women to be feminine because it’s their true essence. It’s about authentic femininity. It’s not about femininity designed to snag a man or snatch a man. It’s about you being real, about you being true to yourself, the same way that eventually masculine because they’re being authentic. It’s not about being macho or about being superior, arrogant, or tough. It’s about living up to who you really are. It’s about realizing and fulfilling your full potential.
A woman should be seeking to be authentically feminine, not to do it for ulterior motives. When a woman realizes her full potential and expresses all of her femininity, there’s a sense of fulfillment, there’s a sense of wholeness, there’s a sense of real meaning and inner peace that is almost indescribable.
Click here for Part 5 of 5 Parts of the transcript of Patrick Wanis PhD answering questions and sharing insights with Christelyn D. Karazin of www.beyondblackwhite.com on the topic of what it really means to be feminine – “The Secret to being feminine without being controlled by men” https://patrickwanis.com/blog/secret-feminine-controlled-men/
Anointed “The Woman Expert” by WGN Chicago, Patrick Wanis PhD is a renowned Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert who developed SRTT therapy (Subconscious Rapid Transformation Technique) and is teaching it to other practitioners. Wanis’ clientele ranges from celebrities and CEOs to housewives and teenagers. CNN, BBC, FOX News, MSNBC & major news outlets worldwide consult Wanis for his expert insights and analysis on sexuality, human behavior and women’s issues. Wanis is the first person ever to do hypnotherapy on national TV – on the Montel Williams show.