In this Success newsletter, I would like to talk about Confidence and how to become supremely confident.
Confidence is the belief in oneself and one’s abilities. Arrogance is the attitude that one is better or superior than someone else. Real confidence occurs when you can freely express yourself, when you feel strong and capable to pursue what you want and when you are not influenced or knocked over by how others respond or might respond to you.
We are all born confident: the only fear a baby has is falling or loud sounds. Our confidence (belief in ourselves) is shattered by the things we are told, particularly as children. Parents, friends, society tell us we can’t do this or that, we will amount to nothing, we are stupid, fat, ugly, worthless, etc. Thus we grow up doubting ourselves, our abilities and self-worth. We walk around afraid to show our real selves in case we are rejected or criticized and thus we waste most of our time, energy and effort trying to get other people to like us or believe in us and our abilities.
So how do we regain and attain supreme self-confidence? By arriving at the emotional realization that what we were told about us and our self-worth is lies. All the people who made claim to know you and who chose to criticize you or abuse you were simply projecting onto you their own self-doubt, anger, fear, negative programming and issues. Confidence occurs when you are set free from those lies and you can finally look in the mirror and see the real you, when you can finally see all the good in you and realize that you are capable and that you deserve the best. This change in years of programming may take a long time – unless you can access the emotional mind – the subconscious mind where all your deepest beliefs are stored. I have created a special and powerful audio to achieve this “Feel Good About Yourself -and become more confident.” The daily use of this audio works to help you attain supreme confidence, to freely express yourself and to seek your own approval instead of the approval of others. And if you want real power, combine it with my hypnosis audio “Supreme Self-confidence.”
I wish you the best and remind you “Believe in yourself -You deserve the best!”
Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert & Clinical Hypnotherapist
Anointed “The Woman Expert” by WGN Chicago, Patrick Wanis PhD is a renowned Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert who developed SRTT therapy (Subconscious Rapid Transformation Technique) and is teaching it to other practitioners. Wanis’ clientele ranges from celebrities and CEOs to housewives and teenagers. CNN, BBC, FOX News, MSNBC & major news outlets worldwide consult Wanis for his expert insights and analysis on sexuality, human behavior and women’s issues. Wanis is the first person ever to do hypnotherapy on national TV – on the Montel Williams show.