Ten Myths Women Have About Men

Ten Myths Women have about Men

Ten Myths Women have about Men

Can you tell the truth from the myths?

While women are highly perceptive they still haven’t yet completely figured out the male psyche? Women have many unique perceptions and misconceptions about men. Can you distinguish the truths from the myths?

  • Do men truly want somebody just like their mother?
  • Can a woman change her man?
  • Does a man want to know the dating history of his partner?
  • Do men truly love “bitches”?

Patrick Wanis is a Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior and Relationship Expert and author.  In his new two-CD audio book, “Get the man you WANT!”, Wanis identifies the ten major perceptions women have about men. And five of them are myths, five of them truths. Can you distinguish the truths from the myths? Take the test and then compare your responses with the expert’s answers below.

BELIEFS WOMEN HAVE ABOUT MEN

TRUE
OR
FALSE?

1. Men are not interested in what women have to say – unless it’s about sport, food and sex
2. Men want somebody who is just like their mother
3. Men only think about sex
4. He’s spoiling me, so he must have plenty of cash to splash
5. If I sleep with him on the first date, he won’t respect me
6. I can change him
7. Men are interested in a woman’s dating history
8. Men don’t like women who make the first move
9. Men prefer “bitches”
10. Men prefer young women

THE MYTHS AND TRUTHS

1. Men are not interested in what women have to say  – unless it’s about sport, food and sex
False – men do want to know what women have to say –they just are not good at knowing how to communicate with women

2. Men want somebody who is just like their mother True –but they don’t know it…
Although men want to be loved, nurtured and often spoiled, they are subconsciously attracted to women who are similar to their mom

3. Men only think about sex -False
Men do think a lot about sex (generally more than women) but men too, yearn for an emotional connection. When women evolve to place priorities on children and family, the man still wants regular sex

4. He’s spoiling me, so he must have plenty of cash to splash  -True and False
Some guys will go into debt to initially impress and win a woman

5. If I sleep with him on the first date, he won’t respect me -True
Men are innately hunters and prize the rare catch. If the woman is too easy to win, he feels she is not so special – even though he may be the one pressuring her to sleep with him.

6. I can change him -False
Women fall in love with a man’s potential and plan to change him for the better and then become despondent when they realize they can’t change him.

7. Men are interested in a woman’s dating history -False –they prefer not to know
The male ego says “I am the first, the best and the only one able to please you!”

8. Men don’t like women who make the first move True –if they want a long-term relationship
An apparent contradiction – the male ego is initially stroked and flattered by a woman who makes the first move but he usually gets bored in the long-term because men like to be the hunter –not the hunted.

9. Men prefer “bitches” -False
Some men with low self-esteem choose women who are controlling. Men are, though, attracted to women who know their own mind and are clear about what they want.

10. Men prefer young women –True
Men prefer young women but not for the reasons women think: men are attracted to the women who are young in spirit, playful, take care of their bodies and looks, and still have a passion for life.

Patrick Wanis’ book “Get the man you WANT!” is available as an audio book on 2 CDS orMP3 files. www.parickwanis.com and click on CDs – Audio Books

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    Patrick says:

    Dear Patricia,

    you are right that you have not been valuing yourself. Ask yourself, why you believe you deserve to be treated this way and why you don’t deserve a man that gives to you? You have a problem with receiving and that’s why you attract men who only take from you. And yes, if you are treating your body poorly then that means you don’t respect yourself and neither will others respect you. Please listen to my audio program – secret to get what you truly deserve http://www.patrickwanis.com/date

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    Patricia Bustamante says:

    I have come to the conclusion that I need to value myself more when it comes to relationships. Since about 1994 I have had men that have treated me less than fair and I want to change this. The first one I dated had a drug problem. He was not ideal for me or any woman at the time and I permitted a lot of abuse. After about 10 years of going with him on and off and finally having to walk away completely disappointed, I dated another one in a relationship who after only a few weeks was really inconsiderate of my feelings. He would (and still does from time to time) ask me for financial help and complain about not having money. Nonetheless, for Christmas he got his ex-girlfriend a gift and not me…I had gotten him a cologne set. He also finds ways to get money for his own things he wants and needs, yet says that he has not enough money for me when it comes to my birthday, etc… I also met another one who is always stating that he doesn’t want to spend any money. He took me out on a date in NYC and we got coffee…it started to rain and pour and I got completely wet because he did not get a cab nor pay for the subway, and when we went into a “Chevy’s” restaurant so he could go to the bathroom, he stated that he would love to stay and eat, but did not want to spend a lot of money (those exact words) and admitted to having $400 in his pocket that he was saving for dental work that would cost him $1,000. He makes, however, about $700 min. a weekend in a restaurant he works in. Why do I attract these men? I am thinking that perhaps the way I treat my own body (a habit I have committed to changing this year) may have something to do with it. Maybe I am too nice or accomodating as well and I don’t know why I am like that either…Wish I could change. Please send me a reply with your thoughts…I would really appreciate it. Thanks.

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