Oprah & The Secret Part 1

I would like to talk about the bestseller book and DVD, “The Secret” and what they left out – the missing elements for you to truly get what you want.

The Secret is based around The Law of Attraction – you get more of what you focus on. The Secret teaches you to ask, visualize and receive: Decide what you want, visualize it, feel the emotions of getting it, and you’ll get it.

But is that all there is to getting what you want?

Why has The Secret worked for some people but not all?

First: you can sit down and visualize or fantasize everything you want all day long but if you take no action, then nothing will happen. So the first missing key is: Take Action!

Second: The Law of Deservedness: You get only what you subconsciously believe you deserve! So, if you visualize and emotionalize what you want but subconsciously you don’t believe you deserve it, then you will either take no action or you will sabotage it when you get it. This is a key point in my audio book, “Get the man you WANT” where I explain that women who don’t subconsciously believe they deserve the best will sabotage a good relationship. Also, if you subconsciously believe that money is bad or rich people are evil, you will create blocks to becoming rich and wealthy. For example, did you know that studies show that most lottery winners lose their winnings in 2-3 years? Evelyn Adams, won the New Jersey lottery not just once, but twice (1985, 1986), to the tune of $5.4 million but today she lives in a trailer!

Third: there is a key spiritual component missing in The Secret. The Universe and nature are perfectly balanced. We breathe in oxygen and breathe out carbon dioxide. The trees and plants turn the carbon dioxide into oxygen and we breathe in the fresh oxygen. If we and the trees only took but didn’t give back, we would not survive. This is the flow of life: Giving and receiving. In other words, we will never be fulfilled simply viewing life as taking, taking and taking. Our deep sense of satisfaction and fulfillment comes from contributing to others and adding value to other people’s lives. In other words, give back to also receive!  In my audio book, “Get What You Want” (published and released prior to The Secret), I clearly explain these points in detail and offer specific exercises about how to apply all of these laws and principles. I have also created a hypnosis CD/MP3,  Be Happy, Rich & Wealthy” to help you overcome procrastination, get motivated to take action, remove the subconscious blocks so that you will believe you deserve the best of everything, to embrace money and wealth, and to use money the way you want – to help yourself and others! My Hypnosis CD/MP3 and book are available from my website. I will expand on the above points in my next newsletters.

I wish you the best and remind you “Believe in yourself -You deserve the best!”

Patrick Wanis
Celebrity Life Coach, Human Behavior & Relationship Expert & Clinical Hypnotherapist

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    Jim Peake says:

    Patrick great points. when i saw them all on larry king i thought that their message was confusing as a group. i do credit them for doing something. i think you are spot on that the components you endorse “action” being one of the most important has to be included in anyone’s success secret.

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